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I have a love/hate relationship with schedules.
However, as anyone alive knows, life in a fallen world means glitches in the schedule. It means interruptions, unexpected emergencies, and off-the-radar drop ins. In other words, the regular ups and downs of life that cannot be quantified or accounted for on any piece of paper. ‘The best laid plans of men, oft go awry…’
So I hate them.
I mean, why bother?
This was especially true last fall. Erik was in his final semester of college. As his proofreader and study partner, he called on me as the need hit. Obviously, I dropped or shuffled what I could to help him out. On occasion, my work deadlines got pushed to the last possible hour that could be called ‘on-time’. Sleep also got shortchanged some days. All that would have been OK, but I don’t have just one son.
Karl was scheduling, planning and arranging his Eagle project last fall. Though he worked hard and did what he needed to do, it still meant I had to drive him to appointments, interviews, take him to shop for supplies, take pictures on the build days and so forth. And when I was running around with him, I couldn’t get housework done or help Erik. So those things had to wait until we got home.
As a homeschool mom, I should have been thrilled that my sons needed my help to achieve such lofty goals. I should have been, but I kept looking at the schedules and getting stressed out. I am only one mom.
To top it all off, my personal to-do list was crazy too. I was teaching a new co-op class that I had to prepare for and revise a curriculum I’d used earlier. I still had to grade papers and respond to emails from online students. And I had rewrites, edits and galley proofs for not one, but two books. I felt like I was drowning. I hated my schedule.
It took some serious morning Bible study and quiet time to help me through. And in the process, I noticed what I was doing (and wrote down two paragraphs ago). ‘I kept looking at the schedules.’
Like Peter, I had started to walk across the waves of busy-ness and multiple demands of the season with my eyes on Christ. But then, I looked at the waves instead of him and began to sink in the stress.
Life started to get better when I confessed each morning as I wrote out the things to do, “Lord, I can’t do this. But you can.”
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11/28/2018 3:16:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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11/21/2018 1:14:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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11/14/2018 11:41:00 AM by: Susan Lyttek
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10/31/2018 5:06:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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10/17/2018 3:46:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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10/10/2018 3:52:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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10/3/2018 3:30:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
(Re) Learning to Scream
9/25/2018 7:46:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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9/15/2018 10:26:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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9/1/2018 5:53:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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8/24/2018 10:59:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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8/18/2018 7:35:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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8/10/2018 4:10:00 AM by: Susan Lyttek
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8/3/2018 10:41:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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7/28/2018 1:28:00 AM by: Susan Lyttek
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7/21/2018 3:59:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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7/6/2018 7:45:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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6/30/2018 9:13:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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6/22/2018 1:32:00 AM by: Susan Lyttek
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6/15/2018 2:36:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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6/10/2018 9:35:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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6/2/2018 6:58:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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5/26/2018 9:01:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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5/19/2018 5:30:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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5/13/2018 6:55:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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5/6/2018 8:08:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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4/29/2018 8:58:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
A Sestina Education
4/23/2018 7:48:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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4/15/2018 8:55:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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4/9/2018 7:41:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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3/31/2018 9:44:00 AM by: Susan Lyttek
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3/25/2018 9:59:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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3/18/2018 9:28:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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3/11/2018 9:06:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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3/4/2018 7:37:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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2/25/2018 10:59:00 AM by: Susan Lyttek
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2/17/2018 11:11:00 AM by: Susan Lyttek
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2/4/2018 1:13:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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1/29/2018 1:18:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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1/21/2018 7:32:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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1/13/2018 7:52:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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1/6/2018 10:36:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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12/29/2017 10:31:00 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Christmas Letter
12/21/2017 5:51:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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12/9/2017 10:04:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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12/1/2017 2:59:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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11/25/2017 6:10:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
The Wonder of a Shoebox
11/18/2017 9:36:00 AM by: Susan Lyttek
A Place to Hide
11/11/2017 3:13:00 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Thoughts on the Reformation
11/4/2017 9:04:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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10/28/2017 5:23:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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10/21/2017 8:28:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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10/14/2017 5:32:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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10/7/2017 5:41:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Tired
9/30/2017 3:50:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Priorities
9/23/2017 10:33:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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9/16/2017 8:02:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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9/9/2017 3:47:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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9/2/2017 5:47:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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8/26/2017 9:33:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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8/19/2017 6:37:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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8/11/2017 8:28:00 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Overweight
8/5/2017 1:58:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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7/28/2017 8:58:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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7/20/2017 10:15:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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6/24/2017 5:51:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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6/17/2017 9:00:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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6/11/2017 9:00:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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5/26/2017 3:42:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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5/20/2017 9:03:00 AM by: Susan Lyttek
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5/13/2017 3:44:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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5/6/2017 6:46:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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4/22/2017 5:33:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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4/15/2017 3:13:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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4/8/2017 1:22:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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3/29/2017 8:24:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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3/11/2017 8:08:00 AM by: Susan Lyttek
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3/4/2017 7:45:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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2/18/2017 8:01:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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2/11/2017 9:43:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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2/4/2017 8:55:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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1/28/2017 8:33:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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1/21/2017 1:28:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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12/31/2016 3:22:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Our Christmas Letter
12/23/2016 9:31:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
NaNo and Pebble Lessons
12/16/2016 10:40:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
December Birthday Tributes
12/5/2016 10:59:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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11/18/2016 3:34:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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11/11/2016 9:41:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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11/4/2016 5:41:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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10/28/2016 1:59:00 AM by: Susan Lyttek
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10/21/2016 7:00:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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10/12/2016 5:22:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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10/2/2016 8:20:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Words and the Word (Part 1)
9/26/2016 9:11:00 AM by: Susan Lyttek
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9/18/2016 9:34:23 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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9/11/2016 4:03:50 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Standard Rescue, part 2
9/3/2016 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Standard Rescue, part 1
8/27/2016 4:59:44 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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8/19/2016 4:44:52 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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7/30/2016 9:23:22 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Why Teach Poetry?
7/24/2016 7:26:09 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Lessons from My Color Bible, Part 3
7/15/2016 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Blog-itis
7/8/2016 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
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7/4/2016 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Lessons in Fear
6/30/2016 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Lessons from My Color Bible, Part 2
6/10/2016 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Leftover Queen, Part II
5/27/2016 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Leftover Queen
5/20/2016 9:39:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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5/12/2016 4:40:02 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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4/22/2016 10:37:35 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Making Writing Fun Again
4/15/2016 12:52:15 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Springing
4/6/2016 6:26:30 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Good Friday Thoughts
3/26/2016 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Confessions of a Delinquent Blogger
3/23/2016 8:42:49 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Accepting the Gift of Free Time
2/29/2016 7:45:10 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Rest vs. the Type-A Female
2/22/2016 3:43:20 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Lessons on Sickness and Rest
2/14/2016 9:09:30 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Sick Lessons
2/6/2016 11:17:24 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Blocked
1/27/2016 11:11:44 AM by: Susan Lyttek
When Inspiration Fails to Strike
1/16/2016 9:32:15 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Stumbling Into the New Year
1/13/2016 11:02:06 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Annual Christmas Letter
12/26/2015 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Benefits to the Parent: Help with Work
10/31/2015 10:50:23 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Benefits to the Homeschool Parent: Home
10/24/2015 4:55:48 PM by: Susan Lyttek
The Benefits of Unscheduled Free Time
10/16/2015 8:03:39 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Benefits to the Homeschool Parent: More Empathetic
10/9/2015 7:46:24 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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10/9/2015 7:39:56 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Benefits to the Parent: More Willing to Persevere
10/2/2015 8:50:54 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Benefits to the Homeschool Parent: Closer to God
9/25/2015 8:33:01 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Benefits to the Homeschool Parent: More Intuitive
9/18/2015 7:07:30 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Benefits to the Homeschool Parent--Weaker
9/11/2015 7:42:33 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Benefits to the Parent--Seeing God's Hand
9/4/2015 9:59:53 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Benefits to the Homeschool Parent: Savvy-er
8/28/2015 6:49:31 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Benefits to the Homeschool Parent: Braver
8/21/2015 7:34:00 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Benefits to the Homeschool Parent: Wiser
8/14/2015 7:33:44 AM by: Susan Lyttek
The Benefits to the Homeschool Parent: Smarter
8/7/2015 7:31:13 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Benefits of Being a Homeschool Parent (Intro)
7/31/2015 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Lessons from my Great Aunt Ansie
7/24/2015 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Virginia Writers Conference
7/14/2015 11:43:28 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Relearning Fitness (Part 2)
7/10/2015 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Some Truth About Independence Day
7/3/2015 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Relearning Fitness (Part 1)
6/26/2015 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Under the Sun
6/19/2015 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
A Lesson I Keep Needing to Re-Learn
6/13/2015 9:17:18 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Times of Transition
6/6/2015 8:43:26 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Blog Ideas
5/30/2015 7:06:10 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Mercs Next Door, Part 2
5/23/2015 7:36:30 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Mercs Next Door, Part 1
5/15/2015 9:00:41 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Getting to Mom
5/9/2015 9:32:42 PM by: Susan Lyttek
To Blog or Not to Blog
5/2/2015 9:57:39 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Driving Lessons
4/25/2015 2:01:36 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Gaming Education
4/18/2015 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Fast Lessons
4/11/2015 7:37:50 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Resurrection Thoughts
4/4/2015 6:47:45 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Power of the Coupon
3/28/2015 6:18:32 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Spring Planting
3/21/2015 7:36:53 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Showing My Age
3/14/2015 7:51:06 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Teaching Women
3/7/2015 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Beware the Ides of... February
2/28/2015 1:10:50 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Honoring a President in Fiction
2/21/2015 7:35:35 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Gratitude Lessons
2/14/2015 7:12:56 AM by: Susan Lyttek
The Pros and Cons of Research
2/6/2015 8:13:38 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Off the Hamster Wheel... Part 3
1/30/2015 9:01:50 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Off the Hamster Wheel... Part 2
1/24/2015 7:55:59 PM by: Susan Lyttek
The Homeschool Hamster Wheel
1/16/2015 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Etiquette Education
1/9/2015 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Ready Stance
1/2/2015 7:01:43 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Our Christmas Letter
12/26/2014 8:36:08 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Sharing Christmas, Part Two
12/19/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Sharing Christmas
12/12/2014 5:32:30 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Swedish Christmas Education
12/5/2014 10:08:38 AM by: Susan Lyttek
The Worry/Grumble Antidote
11/28/2014 11:07:16 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Milestone Days
11/21/2014 9:58:07 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Volunteer Education--via Operation Christmas Child
11/14/2014 8:32:03 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Veteran Education
11/7/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Reformation Education
10/31/2014 8:51:31 AM by: Susan Lyttek
The Reluctant Vegetarian
10/24/2014 2:55:59 PM by: Susan Lyttek
What I Didn't, Couldn't Teach
10/17/2014 4:30:17 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Learning to Stand
10/10/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Christian Work Ethic
10/3/2014 6:36:19 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Animal Education
9/26/2014 10:54:19 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Changing the Love of Learning
9/19/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Blog Block
9/12/2014 9:50:31 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Educating Mom
9/5/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
The Debate
8/29/2014 7:22:59 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Interview with Jane, a non-homeschooling friend
8/22/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
The Homeschool Rebel
8/15/2014 8:11:24 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Other Countries, Other Peoples
8/8/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
George Washington Lessons
8/1/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Interview with Heather Day Gilbert
7/25/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
A Creation Education
7/18/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
The Blessing of the Church
7/11/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Free to Homeschool
7/4/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
The Best Thing
6/27/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
School Lite
6/20/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Homeschooling Poetry
6/13/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Homeschool Preschool
6/6/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
AWANAcation (or Awana Education)
5/30/2014 4:40:30 PM by: Susan Lyttek
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5/23/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Penpal Encouragement: An Interview with Sandi
5/16/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Unexpected Education
5/9/2014 8:31:18 AM by: Susan Lyttek
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5/2/2014 8:08:10 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Relax, It's Just Writing
4/25/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Purpose Driven Homeschool
4/18/2014 9:38:10 AM by: Susan Lyttek
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4/11/2014 3:11:23 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Music Lessons
4/4/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Teaching My Testimony (Part 2)
3/28/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Teaching My Testimony (Part 1)
3/21/2014 8:16:29 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Glimmers of Homeschooling
3/14/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Failed Days
3/7/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Other Side of the Homeschool Table...Leanne Hanson
2/28/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Fairy Tale Theology
2/21/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Things I Love about Life and Homeschooling
2/14/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Limitless Creativity by Bonnie Rose Hudson
2/7/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Weaving Christ into Math
1/31/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Paula Mowery Interview
1/24/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Historic Field Trips
1/17/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Snow Days... Homeschool Style
1/10/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Homeschooled Mom Resolutions
1/3/2014 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
Off Schedule
12/27/2013 11:17:52 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Teaching Christmas
12/20/2013 10:24:16 AM by: Susan Lyttek
The (Writerly) Benefits of Learning Together
12/13/2013 2:11:46 PM by: Susan Lyttek
Homeschooling reinforced that I am not perfect
12/6/2013 11:33:13 AM by: Susan Lyttek
And they said homeschooling would be easy...
11/29/2013 12:00:01 AM by: Susan Lyttek
