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Overweight, Part Three
8/19/2017 6:37:00 PM by: Susan Lyttek

So much of the American life is overweight.  We are burdened by our pursuit of the “American dream”. It lends to too many possessions, too many activities, too much stress and too little rest. We rush and rush to fill every minute with consuming something.

To get past that requires a transformation in thinking. As the Bible points out, we should give instead of keep, alternate feasting with fasting, rest at least one day a week, and be quiet in order to know our Creator better.

As I mentioned last week, worry and anxiety are two more areas in my life that tend to get overweight. If I let myself, I can worry about everything. And I mean every little thing. Step into my mind for a bit… Is my hangnail okay or does that color mean some weird disease? Did I turn off the light (unplug the hair dryer, etc.)? Will my cat still be alive in two years? When I said their work was good, did they believe me or think I was being sarcastic?

Worry is the default setting of my old nature and I have to battle it constantly. When my life gets overweight with worry, progress ceases. I don’t finish things. I don’t sleep well. Living for Jesus falters and sputters. Perhaps that’s why God tells us time and time again not to worry. He reminds us we need to take every thought captive. Don’t worry, he says. Don’t be anxious. Pray and trust me. I got this for you, my child.

The other side of worry is regret. This tendency causes us to look back on who we’ve been and micro analyze our shortcomings. I should have done this. I shouldn’t have done that. If only I knew then what I know now. I would have done A, B and C and life would be wonderful.

Regret says that God didn’t have his hand in our lives. It was up to us and we flubbed it. Woulda, coulda, shoulda. Even if we did goof up and make the wrong choice or choices, God can and will use it to our betterment. So don’t look backwards.

The last emotional category includes burdens and dreams. A dream for the future or an ambition can be a good thing. But if that dream or ambition becomes an idol, something we value more than our relationship with God, our lives become overweight. Sometimes, my desire to be a good writer does this flip flop. I then have to recommit my writing to the Lord before it truly has value again. A burden, on the other hand, is grieving a dream that did not come to pass. A successful military career was a burden for me for several years after I was discharged.

Just like I will keep trying to lose weight physically and get in better shape, I will try to lose weight in all these other areas of my life. The Bible has a word for that—sanctification.


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